Bad relationships end as they should.

2022.01.29 11:09 waitingforpopcorn Bad relationships end as they should.

I heard this from a TedTalk about divorce. Researchers interviewed people and asked them how they would feel if their romantic relationships ended. People said devastated. Five years later they followed up, foumd the people who were no longer in those relationships. Those people were fine, most of them were even better then five years earlier.
I am writing this five years after my wife of 11 years walked out on me. She had many reasons, my drinking didn't help. I got sober during the divorce, the worst time of my life. ("So he thought", said the mysterious voice sounding like Morgan Freeman).
After the divorce I went back out drinking. Got my PhD in field research. ("Then THE WORST thing in his life happened", said that damn voice again). I lost more loved ones, more people that didn't deserve it. That's when I put down the shovel. That is when I had my last drink.
Sobriety sucked at first, duh. I worked at it and it started to work. Bad days became fewer. I have kept 55 lbs off. Best shape ever. Starting a new position at work, big pay increase, massive potential. I am trusted. I can be counted on. I no longer need to apologize.
Drinking only gets worse, and sobriety only gets better. I definitely have another drunk in me, but I don't know if I have another sober in me. Sobriety means I have already done the worst things in my life.
IWNDWYT or in February.
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2022.01.29 11:09 eddymerritt Romeo in Romeo and Juliet

I just read Romeo and Juliet and I had a question Romeo was the one who almost always instigated their relationship in the balcony scene she tells him to leave a couple of times. do you think if he did that and came back another time to try and make her fall in love with him how would the story have played out?
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2022.01.29 11:09 shitsucksmydude I've been in a very bad spot lately and I neglected my sourdough starter and now its dead and it will take me a while to get a new one established :(

I'm just sad that my mental health has ruined so much.
many of my plants have also been struggling :(
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2022.01.29 11:09 Boogieman1985 Picked up the Bluetooth multimeter.

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2022.01.29 11:09 VirtualStardust I need a Bagon!!

I've been trying to get one and haven't had any luck. If someone could trade one to me, that'd be awesome.
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2022.01.29 11:09 WallstreetWar2021 Questions about promotions within the same group.

I have been told about a yearly promotion cycle, but no one knows any specifics about it.
If you do happen to get a promotion within the same group, do you just get told your new salary or is it similar to if you apply for a different job where you can request a certain amount to take it?
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2022.01.29 11:09 mki12 Fipi

Hope this project will be success,and have a good exchange.I am planning to invest more on this platform its kind of huge project.
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2022.01.29 11:09 pdbootz Help identifying.

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2022.01.29 11:09 JosephsonAdam Borderline pro-choicers, what's stopping you from going pro-life?

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2022.01.29 11:09 Zaluszeq Autobalance is preatty weird sometimes

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2022.01.29 11:09 mateusti Vídeo: Polícia invade “mina” de bitcoin onde pensava existir plantação de maconha

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2022.01.29 11:09 Unfortunatelynotcool Useless

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2022.01.29 11:09 ReeceRhhh join discord for a free nft !!!

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2022.01.29 11:09 Ljonin Just finished my build and wanted to share with you guys 😁 (specs in comments)

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2022.01.29 11:09 WanderlustGin Was sind die auffälligsten Klischees in deutschen Fernsehkrimis?

Ich fang mal an,
- wenn eine Familie in einem großen, gepflegten Haus wohnt, dann hat einer bestimmt was verbrochen/ein dunkles Geheimnis
- die Polizisten arbeiten immer in einem abgedunkelten, schummrig beleuchteten Großraumbüro
- sie gehen erst nach Hause und schlafen, wenn sie jemand dazu auffordert "du siehst scheiße aus. wann hast Du das letzte Mal geschlafen?"
- Kommissare haben nie ein Familienleben, höchstens eine Ex-Frau und ein Kind was nicht bei ihnen wohnt.
- Sidekicks sprechen Dialekt
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2022.01.29 11:09 starlight3687 She said she stayed out and up all night. We can't tell by your eyes or anything 🙀👍🏻😀

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2022.01.29 11:09 ParkingFar8769 سید این دنیا دیگه ارزش زندگی نداره🗿

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2022.01.29 11:09 Feeling_Garbage_3773 Has anyone here been an avid Instagram user then deactivated their account? If so, why did you do it?

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2022.01.29 11:09 BadgerElectronic8126 The perfect mug doesn't exist

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2022.01.29 11:09 Chaotic_Lizzards DIY MIG welding cart

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2022.01.29 11:09 zslayer89 Tips and tricks for litter robot(pinch detect hack)

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2022.01.29 11:09 amazing-username123 Don’t ask

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2022.01.29 11:09 Kyj-dhe-ves What fun it is.

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2022.01.29 11:09 GoodPuzzleheaded9911 Get 1000 subscribers in just 3 steps

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2022.01.29 11:09 siamak50 12 Chinese Home Remodelling Ideas: Solutions to Housing Problems

In 2014, a home reconstruction program called “Dream home” was launched in China, inviting architects and interior designers to redesign some old houses that have problems. Some of these homes are oddly shaped, some are tiny, and yet others have extremely inadequate lighting >>>
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